Obligation is a derail
2014-08-20 21:10:32.918768+00 by Dan Lyke 0 comments
Obligation is a derail: Some thoughts on negotiation in loving relationships:
Obligation is a distraction from the real issue, which is, “Do I feel that making you happy in this way is worth what it will cost me?*” Sometimes the answer is no, and that is an acutely uncomfortable thing to say, which is why we shy away from it and use “obligation” as a screen. ...
A number of things in here, I need to read this through a few times.