Flutterby™! : sex parties, then and now

Via Pursed Lips (speaking of which, I owe y'all a review of some sort of Debra's Resurrection: An S/M Love Story), Susie Bright on swingers versus S/M parties: "You mean, they're just swingers in black leather clothing?" "Well, not quite," I said, "because they're too young. They think swinging is something you do when you're over 50 and live in a randy subdivision. No, these people are looking for erotic thrills without a lot of head games, and it just so happens that the kinky scene is the only place that supports it. There's no other place in the adult American dating scene where you can be a bit of a show-off, or have two lovers, or fool around watching other people, or try a whole bag of sex toys."