Why don't bachelor parties have cunnilingus classes?
2018-07-26 18:24:21.860108+02 by Dan Lyke 0 comments
Eros Blog: Dream Of A Bachelor-Party Pussy-Eating Class is a little rant and expansion on Buzzfeed: Sex Toys Will Never Be Able To Do The Hardest Work For You
During my tenure doing sex toy retail, I saw thousands of people attempt to wallpaper over their discomfort by buying the “right” toy to solve their problems. People dropped hundreds of dollars trying to make their partners listen to them, or find them desirable, or care about their pleasure. That’s how afraid they were to communicate. But then, who could blame them? It was clear in some cases that the partner didn’t care, or didn’t want to listen, or that the customer would be punished for speaking up for themselves. My colleagues and I gently advised many people around relationships where they were disempowered, ignored, devalued, and dehumanized without language for it.
And that's kinda the thing: Sex is about the communication and the interaction, otherwise porn and toys are way lower effort...