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Gay square dancing and I only get my

2013-05-20 03:16:07.871922+02 by Dan Lyke 2 comments

Gay square dancing and I only get my ass grabbed once: Impressed with finely tuned gaydar, or disappointed that I'm not hot?

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#Comment Re: made: 2013-05-20 17:08:42.872932+02 by: Dan Lyke

At our club dances (where people come in from other clubs), it's been kinda fun watching people figure me out: Partially because I'm a very gentle leader (and, as a newbie, sometimes a tentative one), but also because I do project a pretty het vibe, gay guys are unsure about how physical they can get when dancing with me.

It's a cool way to experience, to some extent, the other side of the patriarchy...

#Comment Re: made: 2013-05-20 13:38:33.996285+02 by: meuon

Dan, you are in incredible physical shape, have an amazing (open) mind and social abilities. But you could be wearing a flaming pink shirt unbuttoned to you navel with very short tight white shorts pulled up tight with rainbow suspenders... and would probably be tagged as "confused" or "clown" before you would be tagged as "gay".

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