Flutterby™! :

There was a time when I questioned the belief that to meet attractive members of the appropriate sex one just had to do what one loved doing, then I came across a half naked European blonde in the middle of the woods in rural Northern California while hiking one day. But at the American Singles gathering in Silicon Valley it was shown that Silicon Valley men aren't terribly interested in desperate women. Or something. Apparently a gazillion women showed up and very few men, despite the fact that Santa Clara County has the largest concentration of unattached men of any metropolitan region in the country. Perhaps if they'd chosen a weekend other than the start of COMDEX?