Flutterby™! : Obligation is a derail 2014-08-20 23:10:32.918768+02

Obligation is a derail

2014-08-20 23:10:32.918768+02 by Dan Lyke 0 comments

Obligation is a derail: Some thoughts on negotiation in loving relationships:

Obligation is a distraction from the real issue, which is, “Do I feel that making you happy in this way is worth what it will cost me?*” Sometimes the answer is no, and that is an acutely uncomfortable thing to say, which is why we shy away from it and use “obligation” as a screen. ...

A number of things in here, I need to read this through a few times.

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