Sex links of the morning
2016-10-24 17:51:04.793477+02 by Dan Lyke 0 comments
Kitty Stryker: Porn didn't ruin your sex life. Sorry.
It’s frustrating because we’re so quick to demonize porn for ruining sex, but don’t think nearly as much about how media ruins our ideas about romance.
Toxic masculinity is present in almost every romantic comedy, but it’s seen as cute, not problematic. I swear men learn how to kiss from movies, and it takes a lot of unlearning that kind of stage performance, but no one is shaking a finger at Hollywood for destroying make out sessions. Why is authenticity so demanded from porn while it’s completely ignored at the box office?
And a plethora from Lola Phoenix, the first one is good, the other two are included because I had the browser tabs open and might want to go back to them for reference because of who and where I got them from:
- Why I don’t identify as “poly”, some notes on polyamory as a community and what the author sees wrong with that movement.
- A relationship is not a skill
- Thirteen things I wish I'd learned before choosing non-monogamy