Flutterby™! :

in Scarlet Letters, some wonderful musings on virginity and rites of passage: "I reject the notion of virginity utterly. I reject the idea that I may only come to a given act as an innocent once, and that anyone besides myself may give a finite weight to the importance of any aspect of my life. I refuse to have but one rite of passage, as I refuse to be stifled from growing, changing and becoming who I am at any given year, day or in every moment."