Flutterby™! : I have been having a lot of

I have been having a lot of realizations about being overcommitted, about all of the implicit volunteering because my technical skills mean I'm seen as a leader in a community which means that people come to me for advice with social problems, about how people who represent themselves as project managers are often good at face, but not much at management, and I'm picking up pieces in the background.

I have a lot of "no"s queued up, but first I have to get through all these implicit "yes"s.